Accusations you add forth about lesbian lesbophobia and erasure in specific.

Accusations you add forth about lesbian lesbophobia and erasure in specific.

We don’t think this ended up being a full instance of escalation by other people, and I also don’t think other people’s escalation would justify the accusations you place forth about lesbian erasure and lesbophobia in specific. Laura R. had been diplomatic. Queer Woman wasn’t hostile.

They just disagreed to you. Searching on the feedback departs me personally with all the summary you are the only who escalated the tone with this conversation. In very first remark you write “All ladies are bisexual by default?” which hit me personally as reasonably hyperbolic. You’ve got extrapolated the possibly erroneous recognition with this one character that is gay imply that the list’s authors think each queer women can be bisexual by standard. That’s super protective and unnecessary. And yes, it is obnoxious to choose this battle during bi exposure week also to allow it to be truly a battle. You might be the main one that has both accused Autostraddle as well as other commenters of lesbian erasure/lesbophobia AND assumed that they’re accusing you of biphobia in change, but whom called you biphobic? Provided your commentary about bi fandoms attacking people, we wonder if perhaps you’ve carried on the power off their fandom fights into a context where it does not use.

We don’t assume that the lesbian would have a problem n’t with bi erasure because We myself have always been a lesbian who’s got an issue with bi erasure. But since you aim the finger at bisexuals by singling away their fandoms for bad behavior, which makes me wonder whenever you can point out opinions you’ve made here by which you object to bi erasure as aggressively and considerably since this so-called instance of lesbian erasure.

you are invited to show me personally incorrect by giving screenshots of the time whenever state, someone utilized ‘lesbian’ to spell it out Evan Rachel Wood’s fashion feeling and you also were this indignant and protective about bi erasure.

I as well as other those who called out of the addition of Waverly with this list had been literally called shitty by the individual you describe as diplomatic, that was the true point once I stopped being good. Funny how you’re OK with this but need from me personally a proof of my good might, expecting I’ll invest hours shopping for and making screenshots of my words and upload it for some host just and that means you will say it doesn’t matter anyway as you don’t view it as any evidence. In the same way being called that is“shitty “diplomatic behavior” in this alt truth.

And that is just what angers me personally the essential concerning this situation. Gaslighting and standards that are double. Calling away detailing as bisexual the type who’s very likely gay that way either just like name calling is diplomatic) and we shouldn’t have any problem because “who’s harmed by that” as she even used the word to describe herself is an attack on bisexual people now (that’s why I mentioned insinuation of biphobia by the way, but of course I bet you didn’t see it. Then a description it is harmful because lesbian exposure is with in really bad state of program contributes to accusation that dealing with lesbians is hi jacking bi exposure week. You actually don’t see any issue for the reason that?

And something of the very disingenuous arguments, we attempt to forbid bi fans from seeing Wav as bi because a write-up on a site that is renowned at queer females is simply the just like an impression of an admirer! Except it is maybe perhaps not. When folks see an impression they’ll be got by it so it’s already formal. Which often can lead to huge strain on the article writers and showrunners to adhere to that even they planned, or they’ll face the fan wrath if it’s not what. And that’s really shitty.

Because of enough time you’re taking to argue that that isn’t a grudge carried over from a bi/lesbian fandom war but actually a basic argument from somebody who is reasonable to any or all, i believe it is a lot more than fair in my situation to inquire of one to straight straight straight back up that claim. You don’t require a screenshot, simply copy/paste something it’s from accusatory you’ve written re:bisexual erasure and link to the article.